Many wonder if men even know how to love. We’re generally raised to be hounds, you see. Always on the hunt. Either claiming someone or envious of those who do the claiming. But wondering about men in general is a mistake. Instead of asking about all those many men in the world, consider the one, whichever. Choose a man you know. Ask: “How does this man love? Is it a love I understand?” The beauty and tragedy of it is you won’t know, you can’t, until you know him. The process of knowing is the key to understanding his particular kind of love and making the choice to return it.