I entered an honest to God debate on why sucking dick or eating pussy are not lesser expressions of love than, say, pressing lips together, rubbing noses, or holding hands, and it came down to the belief that those things are ‘dirty’ or ‘naughty’ which, personal reasons for getting aroused aside, is about as convincing as saying that the words ‘fuck me’ are any less valid than the words ‘make love to me’. I considered pushing it as far as descriptive talk about BDSM, rimming, and so forth, but I stopped short out of courtesy which shows that even as I try to persuade someone toward my point of view I inhibit myself, and the fact is she had an innocent air about her and it was fucking hot to see someone so inhibited in her communication struggle to speak about the topic out in the open. It was a mirror of sorts, now that I think about it