You know what’s strange? After all those years, of him saying he’d kill me if I ever left him, he was the one to go. Just  because he thought I was taking too much cocaine. But really, he didn’t seem very upset to leave at all.

“Conviction” by Tama Janowitz (1986)

Why does he say he wants to sleep with her forever, but sleep with her only once a month? Why does he say she makes him happy, then tell her he’s unhappy?

“Claire’s Lover’s Church by Teri Ruch (1984)

The person you marry is the person you fight with. The house you buy is the house you repair. The dream job you take is the job you stress over. Everything comes with an inherent sacrifice -whatever makes us feel good will also inevitably make us feel bad. What we gain is also what we lose. What creates our positive experiences will define our negative experiences.

Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck (via obitchuaries)