the2headedcalf:

senacowgirl:

brb gonna go on a spiral thinking abt this all weekend (bc i think its insanely true)

no bc these people literally treat others as two-dimensional figures in their self-centered universe, affording them no agency, no recognition of their inner lives and emotions. it is always things like “this isn’t beneficial to me” “i am caring for my inner child” “i am focusing on myself during this particular time in my life” “i owe nothing to other people” “my boundaries” “my feelings” me me me……there is no mention of other people’s boundaries and emotions, because to them other people are npcs that are either useful to their “personal journey” or easily disposable nuiances that they can get rid of with a stock phrase plucked from a leaflet at a therapist’s office

See I just ghost people like a normal maladjusted person.